Why Withholding Sex is a bad idea!

So I came across an article today that peaked my interest levels. It was written by Lincoln Anthony Blades in the Coco Magazine. Essentially the author was talking about a friend of his who was basically denying her man the sex because they were having communication problems.  I just want to add my 2 cents to the argument. 

Now from a male point of view thus is essentially the stupidest thing a woman can do. Taking away sex just to prove a point. But the more I thought about it the more I realized that this is the logical female solution to most problems they encounter.  I mean women have been using the power of the vagina since the inception of time. But more often than not they use it for the wrong reasons and therefore reap inadequate or insufficient rewards. 

Take the whole lack of communication thing. Why the hell would you think that denying a man sex is going to help with your communication problems. Lets be realistic most men are horny bastards, we think about it constantly. When we are not getting it we are more akin to crack addict who ain't had a hit for days. So if we are not actually getting any for awhile obviously we are going to be a bit cranky. But to make matters worse we then gave to deal with the fact that our girl is withholding it just because she feels we need to communicate better. This is a  disaster just waiting to happen. 

If you ask me communication problems are a desperate plea for sex. What better way to communicate than by having sex and fulfilling each others carnal desires. You can start the communication during the act. She can say how she wants it, you comply, communication. You ask how good it is she replies, sounds like communication to me. 

But seriously as adults we can't continue to try to make things better in a relationship by taking away something that can actually help the situation.  

We are not kids anymore therefore we must realize that this whole idea of taking something away to get something else is extremely childish and pointless. Their are other ways to solve problems and we're adults, we should be able to figure them out.