Sex+Violence= Chaotic Society

So over the last couple of weeks In Trinidad and Tobago we've had school fights posted all over social media, had a government minister being put on blast for having an outside thing, form one girls being caught performing oral sex at school and a number of cases of one of the most disturbing crimes on the face of the earth, incest.  

The prognosis being bandied around is simple. We are a violent, sex crazed society. But have you ever stopped to think why? All you need to do is look around. Everything is centered around sex and violence and to make matters worse we've essentially become desensitized to it all. The only people who are safe from it are those of us who live under the proverbial rock with no WI-FI. So what do we expect the youth to do, our future? They sure as hell aren't going to be influenced by anything a parent, a politician or a teacher says, because essentially the ones that are good influences are not sexy, cool or violent enough. 

So maybe what we should do is not only embrace sex and violence but we use it as a weapon. Since it's the only thing that gets ones attention nowadays, in everything we do we should play either the sex or the violence card. Hell we should probably play them both simultaneously. 

Starting with parenting. Parents anytime you have to talk to your kids, go and find the sexiest male or female ever and make sure they have some violent tendencies and have them talk to your kids. Better yet just turn on the TV or buy your kid and IPAD and let that raise your kids. 

Politicians forget about the real issues. Forget about giving speeches about pertinent issues and passing some decent legislation or efficiently doing your job. Just ensure that you look hotter than the next person (thanks to the states tax dollars) and smile for the cameras. If possible you should arrange some MMA cage match against your political opponents cause that would surely grab the attention of the populous. Oh and don't forget to throw in some disrespectful comments about your opponent, preferably about their family. 

To those people who provide us with the information we need through the print media. Forget about giving us the cold hard facts. Just sensationalize it, and fill it with gory or sexually explicit material and pictures. Just fill our minds with pictures of sexy men and women with the occasional bit of violence. Now that's doing your job. 

But wait it seems like someone already stole my idea and look how well it’s working! When are we going to realize that we're drawing cards from a stacked deck and therefore we are bound to loose. The way things are going its probably going to be when it's too late, if it's not to late already! 

Why Withholding Sex is a bad idea!

So I came across an article today that peaked my interest levels. It was written by Lincoln Anthony Blades in the Coco Magazine. Essentially the author was talking about a friend of his who was basically denying her man the sex because they were having communication problems.  I just want to add my 2 cents to the argument. 

Now from a male point of view thus is essentially the stupidest thing a woman can do. Taking away sex just to prove a point. But the more I thought about it the more I realized that this is the logical female solution to most problems they encounter.  I mean women have been using the power of the vagina since the inception of time. But more often than not they use it for the wrong reasons and therefore reap inadequate or insufficient rewards. 

Take the whole lack of communication thing. Why the hell would you think that denying a man sex is going to help with your communication problems. Lets be realistic most men are horny bastards, we think about it constantly. When we are not getting it we are more akin to crack addict who ain't had a hit for days. So if we are not actually getting any for awhile obviously we are going to be a bit cranky. But to make matters worse we then gave to deal with the fact that our girl is withholding it just because she feels we need to communicate better. This is a  disaster just waiting to happen. 

If you ask me communication problems are a desperate plea for sex. What better way to communicate than by having sex and fulfilling each others carnal desires. You can start the communication during the act. She can say how she wants it, you comply, communication. You ask how good it is she replies, sounds like communication to me. 

But seriously as adults we can't continue to try to make things better in a relationship by taking away something that can actually help the situation.  

We are not kids anymore therefore we must realize that this whole idea of taking something away to get something else is extremely childish and pointless. Their are other ways to solve problems and we're adults, we should be able to figure them out.